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2003-10-06 - 4:24 p.m. - well, here goes... If there wasn't enough stress going on right now, I've had another one added. Remember my friend who had a boyfriend/fiancee who died the weekend of Last Chance? Well, she's still hving problems. It's getting worse. She's finally decided that she needs to see someone to get some meds to help her through all of this, and I'm glad to hear it... She's eating one meal a day, she is clinging to his family, and they only met her once, and she's having a hard time understanding that they've moved on. She's decided she wants to be buried beside him, but his son owns the plot.. she's going to try to talk him into sellling it to her. She's decided she's never going to get married again. She visits his grave at least once a week. She went on vacation for a week, but left early because she can't stand to be away from him.....She's not sleeping and she's calling in sick to work.... now, she wants me to tell her about all of the strange things I witnessed her doing/saying behaviors when I was there for those 24 hours. I don't know what to do.. I'm not really sure she's up to hearing about it all. I gave her a couple of examples and she explained them, but they were rationalized answers. I'm really afraid she's teetering on the ragged edge of something, and I don't know how to help her. This is more than I can handle, she really needs a professional. Please don't forget to answer my survey... it's research for a small business idea... all comments appreciated, no reasonable offer refused!!! It won't take five minutes, I PROMISE! |